Oy. See what you went and did, Dan? You don't like it when other people try to change you, but you seem to be fine with making others change! :)
S'ok. I'll live. I'll get a job here (so I can afford to pay $80 per hour of therapy) for a little bit, then I'll move back down to Chicago. Oy. I'm not liking this "moving all my crap" crap, though.